Monday, August 14, 2017

Someone I loved

                                            Someone I Loved

           As the wind blows, the dry leaves fall off slowly leaving the trees barren and lifeless. My life is now seems no different than those trees. There is a conflict in my mind and my heart is shivering in pain. Yes, I don't love anymore. I know is doesn't makes any difference and I won't be shocked if it doesn't matter to her whether I stay or leave. But I am saying these words not to her but myself, to make my heart strong enough to face the harsh reality. So I stop clinging to something that was actually never mine. I am done being the one trying and waiting always, even without knowing when she is going to show up or if she ever shows up at all. I think I should have know right from the beginning when we first met that is not going to have a happy ending. But it was I who foolishly took a chance and believed her when she said  " I love you". Now all I do is ask myself, "how could I have been so stupid?"
Though I accept that I was happiest when I had her beside me, those moments could never reach the heights of the sadness and pain I felt every time she left without saying goodbye. All  day I would be thinking "what I have done wrong?" 'Am I not good?" or may be am I just not in her league. I would ask myself these ridiculous question one after another until I had no energy to ask any further. But now it's enough I don't want to wake up everyday hating myself to someone who appears once in a blue moon only to break my heart again.
I remember my friend once said " Someone special is out there for everyone". I tried hard to be that special someone for her believing she was the one for me. But I tried in vain. Yeah, is still hurts to know I wasn't the one for her. But this is what still makes me wait not for her but for someone better. My special one who will shower me with the love I deserve. Now I know my value and I don't have be an option for someone else  and doubt or blame myself for her behavior. I deserve much more than feeling sorry for myself and weak all the time.

Looking back, I don't regret meeting her or falling for her but I do regret that all my efforts were in vain and didn't make ant sense at all. Yes, I loved her. I can't be denied. This is a bitter truth that is going to stay with me forever but as a closed chapter. Now to me she is nothing more than just…. Someone  I loved.

Saturday, August 12, 2017

Let the children choose their own Dream

     Let Children Choose their own Dreams

      Children develop a set of interests and dreams that are unique to them, at a very young age. Now these might not to be the same dreams you had, or what you wished for them, but you cannot push them in a specific direction against their will. This would cause undue conflicts and power struggles, affecting the attachment between the two of you. Parents need to be practical, and try to understand their children, give room to their needs and aptitudes. Perhaps you could even indulge in something the child enjoys, and try to see it from their perspective. Interacting  with their friends is also a good way of gaining insight into your child's personality.

                        Family Responsibility


    It is often the case that if you set expectations up front, even the most difficult children will  learn not to grumble. Keeping in mind the child's age, personality and interests, it is a good idea to bring them into making decisions, and handing them some responsibility early on, whether it is helping to set the table, doing the dishes, or cleaning their rooms. Overprotection is a crime many parents commit, but instead of sheltering children, it actually hinders proper growth.

Thursday, August 10, 2017

Easy vs Difficult

         Easy Vs. Difficult


Easy is get a place in someone's address book
Difficult is to get in someone's  heart

Easy is to judge the mistake of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistake

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to set rules
Difficult is to follow them

Easy is to enjoy life everyday
Difficult is to give its real value

Easy is to pray every night
Difficult is to show it everyday

Easy is to say we love
Difficult is to show it everyday

Easy is to make mistake
Difficult is to learn from them

Tuesday, August 8, 2017

Cash Machine (ATM) 1967

Cash Machine (ATM) 1967

Shepherd Barron spreads the process of cash withdrawal. There was a time not to do long ago when there was no such things as a cash machine. If you wanted to withdrawal some money, you had to go a building and speak to teller. Now of course it is possible to get cash from 1.6 million automated teller machine worldwide, in stores, cinemas and even the southern rim of the Grand Canyon

Exactly who we have to thank for this stroke of technological banking services is a matter of some controversy. Luther George Simjan, a prolific inventor of his time, devised the very first "Cash-point" in 1939. Installed by the city Bank of New York this cash machine saw little use except with Prostitutes and gamblers, who didn't want to deal with teller face to face. The machine was removed. There followed lull in the history of the cash point that lasted nearly thirty years. Then in 1967, John shepherd Barron an inventor of Scottish descent had an idea in the bath for a machine that would give you money, anywhere in the world, North London in 1967. This early cash machine was operated by a "token" resembling a check impregnated with radioactive material which was verified against a four digit personal identification number (PIN Code) Why four digits? Because that is the most the inventor's wife could remember.

The first plastic card operated ATM was invented by Texan Don Wetzel, a short time later a some people (Including the Smithsonian Institution) credit him with being the inventor of the ATM.

"I hit upon the idea of a chocolate bar dispenser but replacing chocolate with cash"
                                                                                         - John Shepherd Barron 

Saturday, August 5, 2017

Life

                                                      Life

I think life is like a flowing river which always goes in its own way. Sometimes it brings joy and sometimes sorrow. I think in life people want to be happy than why to fight and quarrel. I think we should enjoy our life by smile not by tears. If you want to know the value of life than ask for those person who have really enjoy their life.


To pronounce life it will take just two or three. To understand the life at least ten to twelve years and to extinguish it we may die but we can't extinguish it. I think if we get to see morning rising sun than we should think that it a new year because our life is not fixed when we will die when our accident may occur. So, enjoy your life be helpful and do not waste it.life is precious.

Friday, August 4, 2017

love to my parents

             Love to My Parents

Love is like a river
Love is like a play
Love is what I feel for them
Each and everyday

My love for you is like a river
A cold winter breeze makes my soul shivers
One look from you is like gold

I am hoping to see our one and only love unfold

Thursday, August 3, 2017

Friends Forever

                                       Friends Forever

 Friendship is an important part of life and having strong relationships. Best friends will be with you to share good times and stand by you to help you overcome the hard ones. They love you because they choose to not because they should.

Friendship is about having wonderful moments with friends. Best friend is a huge bonus in life. You get to share your thoughts dreams, fun times and problems with someone who know, understands and cares about you. Making friends is one thing, but maintaining a good friendship is a matter of great importance and commitment. Friendship is very delicate and sensitive relationship.. 

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

That may be you or me

  1.                                         That may be you or me

 
When a child is brought up to this world, there arise unlimited aspiration and dreams of parents along with him. Parents turn to him with hopeful eyes and they start to build castles in the sir. In the shade of parents love and care he starts acknowledging himself and there starts a long work of fulfilling his parent's dreams.
From his early childhood he was only taught to pluck up the flowers but his parents forgot to remind him to aware of thorns. We too know life is not only the bed of roses but we should also walk through bed of thorns. But he has only shown way to success. The only way to success under his parents love and care his life was so joyous and happy but as soon as he participated in this competitive world he could feel the real taste of life both bitterness and sweetness. Unfortunately his failure in one field discourages him and he could not overcome his grieves and pains. As long as the days, months and years pass his mind was washed away and started to get confused about his arms. He was lost in his mystic and along with these friends.
Now a day when I see him I find his enthusiasms appalling. He seems like the idol of heap dreams. But oh! Boy! I'm sorry to say his dreams are no move his strengths but burden for him. His aspirations are no longer existed but are lost in the way. I have pity for his parents. I pressurize my brain even after being potential how could be forget his parent's dream. How could be deader his self-confidence in vain! Where was his self-supportive attitude last?
In the second thought I'm forced to think whether I or you are the same characters.

       Guess……That may be you or me…..